I’ve been mulling over this post for a while. I’ve been trying to come up with some of the things that I would tell newly pregnant friends that they must have. There are so many things that go into making choices when it come to everything, but it seems especially difficult when it comes to baby gear. Probably because you get it all at once. While working on this post, I came to the realization that our main criteria was definitely whether or not the baby would grow out of it quickly. If we felt like it wouldn’t last for at least the first year, we tried to find another option.
I don’t think we were consciously thinking of this, but it was definitely a selling point if we could see the usefulness of an item for quite a while. Obviously, borrow things from friends where you can, or buy used gear!
So, here are some of our recommendations:
Mini Crib: While this doesn’t sound like something that will follow your baby into childhood, this is one of the best things we bought. While it is (as its name implies) smaller than a regular crib, many mini-crib models can be converted into twin beds. Some full size cribs can be converted into full size beds, but that doesn’t make sense to me. Knowing the size of my daughters’ rooms, a full size bed wouldn’t be very useful. They will eventually need twin beds, so might as well buy something when they are babies that can work for that.
I know that one of the draws of full size cribs is that they often convert to toddler beds. I can understand the convenience of this, but not the necessity of it. As of today, Alma is still in her mini-crib. She’s over 2 years old, and was just about 3 feet tall at her check-up last month. She fits comfortably, and I think she will for quite a while. She hasn’t been able to climb out of the crib, either. I imagine when we’re ready to move on from the crib, we’ll get a twin mattress, and put it on the floor for a few weeks or months, then bring the head and foot board in to make it a real bed.
The crib we bought for both girls is the Da Vinci Emily Mini. It comes with a “mattress” that is about an inch thick, and not suitable for sleeping in my opinion. Da Vinci also sells mini-crib mattresses, so we got those too. They also sell a converter kit to make it into a twin bed, but as far as I can tell, it is just a long 1×4 with another ledge attached. I think we will DIY this when the time comes.
Ergo: There are soooo many different kinds of baby carriers out there. I’m sure there are other great ones, but I really love our Ergo. It has carried us (ha! that’s a pun!) from teeny tiny newborn, to full on baby, into toddler-hood and we’re still going! We also have a Moby, but I use the Ergo much more. The infant insert was great for when the babies are super small. My favorite carry for when Alma got bigger is the hip carry. It’s great because Alma can see everything, but she is still cuddled up next to me. It’s also nice to throw the baby on my back (as seen above) for a longer walk. I’ve even put Alma on my back like this, and had Harriet in the Moby on my front at the same time. Pretty great if you ask me.
Convertible Car Seat: Oh man, car seat shopping was the most overwhelming part of baby gear buying for me. I went on Consumer Reports, made spreadsheets, read forums online. Holy cow. I knew this was an important safety decision, but also quite an expensive purchase, so I wanted to make sure we’d be happy with it.
We went with a Britax convertible seat. This basically means that the car seat works from the time your baby is a newborn, until they are huge. They can be both rear, and front facing. They don’t come in and out of the car like infant only car seats. This wasn’t an issue for me, since I always had the Ergo. I do have to say that we got to borrow my nephew’s infant car seat for Harriet, and we really appreciated the convenience of it, but we have already switched to the convertible for her. It got to be way too heavy once Harriet got bigger. So, if you can borrow an infant seat, go for it! I just don’t think it’s worth the money so buy two car seats when you can easily get by just buying one that will last for a few years.
Cloth Diapers: This is our biggest money saver. For sure. We did the math when Alma was a few months ago, and after buying 18 diapers (our magic number), we had them paid off (in terms of what we would have spent on disposables) in about 3 months. Can you even believe that?! We could have kept our child diapered for only 3 months with what we spent on buying cloth diapers! Even with the extra laundry (one load every 3-4 days for us), they are way cheaper than disposables.
I know there are lots of other great reasons to use cloth diapers (environment, health, cuteness, etc) the money was really what sold us. But they are pretty damn cute!
[Also, you can expect to see a longer post on cloth diapering and how we do it coming soon!]
Tripp Trapp high chair: To fully understand the genius of this chair, I will refer you to the Stokke website. This chair grows with your child. The seat, and the footrest are adjustable, so when they grow, you can just lower it. This allows your kids to always be able to sit right up to the table, have proper posture, and have a firm place for their feet. The most important thing to me was having out kids at the table with us. Dinnertime is important to our family. Harriet is already sitting in her Tripp Trapp at our table, even though she’s not eating solids yet. I like that both kids are right there, part of the family, not off to the side. Clean up is easy, too. We just wipe down the table or place mat. I love it.
There you have it! These are my favorite ways to save some money and spend wisely. I have lots of other recommendations if have any questions.
What are some ways you saved some money or made some decisions when it came to baby gear?
[Note: None of these companies asked me to write about them. They don’t have any idea who I am or that I wrote this. These are all just my opinions that I thought I would share with you.]
[Another Note: Check out what I have to say about stroller shopping here!]
Harriet was Baptized today at our wonderful church. We are so blessed to have a lovely church to attend. We couldn’t ask for a better priest than Bingham, and are so glad that he was able to baptize both Alma and Harriet. 
Harriet did really well. You can see in the photo above that Alma was a little concerned about what Father Bingham was putting on her forehead. It was oil, and part of my favorite part of the baptism ceremony. The priest puts oil on her forehead, eyes, ears, mouth, hands, and feet and says:
Our dear friends Stu and Jacque are Harriet’s Godparents, and we are so lucky to have them. Their son Edison is just 9 days older than Harriet, so it is extra special to have them be such an important part of her life.
Not only do we love Father Bingham, but we also were blessed to have a retired priest be the Celebrant at the service. Father Ted was my priest all growing up, and even married us. It was really special to have him be a part of the service for Harriet.
I realized that we never got a photo of Father Bingham, Alma, and her Godparents, so we took this as an opportunity to correct this oversight. Just a couple years after the baptism. We love Kenton and Katrina and are so blessed to have them in our lives. They are beautiful Godparents to Alma.
After the service, we had lots of friends and family over to celebrate. I love when our house is filled with so many loved ones. Alma and Harriet are so lucky to have so many great friends who love them so much.
These are Alma’s best friends, above. Rach was her nanny last year, and is her best friend now. Rory is her best similarly-aged friend, who also had the pleasure of having Rach as his nanny. This threesome is pretty great. They are so bonded in such a fun, lovely way. Rach’s mom came up and was able to help Rach baby sit Alma, Harriet, and their cousins on Saturday night so we could go to a concert. They came to the baptism, also.
Rach is a pretty talented fort builder. All the kids loved playing in it, and Alma’s cousins even got to sleep in it on Saturday night.
Of course, video games are always a big draw. These guys deserved it since they had just done a wonderful job at church during the baptism.
Congratulations, Sweet Harriet. Your enthusiasm and joy is so wonderful. You are so, so loved.
BUT, it’s a single stroller. We knew we were planning on having more kids someday soon, but we still bought a single stroller. I think we just decided to figure out the double stroller if, and when, it became necessary.
