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Posted by Carolyn on May 16, 2015 Leave a Comment

When Alma and Harriet were babies, they had portraits done.  That’s the only time I can think of since our wedding that anyone in our family has had portraits done.  For my birthday this year, my parents gave us a session with a wonderful photographer for family portraits.

Courtney Theim was amazing to work with.  She was incredibly flexible as we waited for a break in the weather to head up to Hendrick’s park.  We met her early one morning and she took some beautiful family portraits with magical light and the incredible backdrop that is the park in springtime.

Here are some of my favorites.

IMG_3826I’m not often in front of the camera, so I’m so happy to have these.  I could write a whole blog post about body image and moms missing from family photos, but I’m sure you’ve all read it before.  The main thing is that I don’t want to look back at my life and not see myself in the photos.  I also don’t want my daughters to see me missing. IMG_3847 IMG_3900 IMG_3922My beautiful, silly girl, with those sweet freckles. IMG_3959 IMG_3966 Come on, seriously.  Harriet is so lovely.IMG_3977I love Harriet’s closed eyes here.  And our strawberry blond curls. IMG_4096 IMG_4104 Look at Harriet looking at Alma.  So much love and admiration right there.  Believe me that it is mutual.IMG_4270 Courtney wanted to try this hand photo, and Harriet didn’t want to play along.  I’m astonished that Courtney was able to catch the split second all our hands were stacked up.  That’s talent, folks.IMG_4390 IMG_4405a IMG_4414 IMG_4467Please contact Courtney if you need some photos done.  She’s wonderfully professional, and was great with the kids.  And the proof’s in the pudding.  The photos are amazing.

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Posted in: gave thanks., nature, parented., STRONG | Tagged: children, grateful, gratitude, kids, Oregon, Parenting, photography

Sweet Creek Falls

Posted by Carolyn on May 1, 2015 Leave a Comment

I love where we live.  The coast is an hour away, the mountains are an hour away.  We have rivers in our town, and creeks right outside.

aIMG_7475aIMG_7411One of those creeks is Sweet Creek Falls, and it has some dazzling waterfalls along the way.  We have been meaning to go there forever, and we finally got a chance this past week.  We went with my parents, who had been there quite a few times before.

aIMG_7491aIMG_7419On the way there, we came across a herd of elk.  I have never seen this many, in the wild, all together, before.  It was awesome.  They stood and looked at us for quite a while, then all took off across the meadow and over a fence.  Awe-some.

aIMG_7389The kids did such a great job.  It was Harriet’s first time on a real hike, outside a carrier.  She just about lost her mind, she loved it so much.  She pointed at everything.  Waved at the creek and said, “Hi-ya,” whenever we had a new view of the water.  She signed water all along the way.  She almost made it to the end, but my mom turned around with her.

aIMG_7407It started out kind of rainy, but that just added to the beauty.  Alma got to use her umbrella, which is always cause for celebration.

aIMG_7403Everything was so, so, so green.  I love this time of year, when the leaves and young and fresh.  Before summer sets in and everything gets covered in dust and dirt.  The forest is alive with critters and magic.

aIMG_7410The kids got to explore, and marvel in the outdoors.  The hike was pretty short, only about 3 miles round trip, and mostly flat along the creek.  Alma made it all the way to the end with Grandpa and us.

aIMG_7486I can’t wait to do more hikes this summer with the kids.  I have a long way to go before I get to my 35 miles before my 35th birthday.  So far, I think I only have about 5!

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Posted in: nature, parented. | Tagged: 35 until 35, Daughters, hiking, nature, Oregon, outdoors, sweet creek, travel

35 Things to do Before I Turn 35

Posted by Carolyn on February 26, 2015 6 Comments

Yesterday was my birthday!  I am now proud to say that I have made 34 trips around the sun.  Pretty cool journey we get to take each year, flying around in outer space.  For my 35th years, I decided to make a list of 35 things to do before I turn 35. ABM_1424992821Here’s my list:

  1. Read a book a month.  This should be easy since I have book club every month.  If I keep up with the club, this will be complete!  Note to self: must get this month’s book!
  2. Sign up for life insurance.  Not to be morbid, or anything.  But, yeah.
  3. Try a Barre3 class.
  4. Get a monthly massage.  I would love to complete this goal, but I think it might be one of the less likely.
  5. Try acupuncture.
  6. Get a haircut.  I’m pretty much on a once yearly schedule, and my last haircut was last March.  I did this right before my trip to California!  I love it how the stylist thins out my hair.  Feels so much lighter!
  7. Try 5 recipes from my new cookbook!
  8. Spend a weekend at the beach.
  9. Spend a weekend in the mountains.
  10. Can something.  Maybe tomatoes, pizza sauce, green beans?  What do you think, friends?  I know I have some amazing canning friends!
  11. Get our garden going again.  It has been sadly ignored since I’ve either been pregnant or living with a small baby for the past 3 summers.
  12. Focus on getting my Etsy shop going.  Note:  It has a new name and address – CaroMade!
  13. Post one new listing on CaroMade every month.
  14. Do a creative retreat – either an organized one, or organize my own!
  15. Get more chickens.
  16. Get back on my daily chore schedule!  Our house neeeeeeeds it!
  17. Go to Disneyland!  Yes!  We took Alma there with my cousin and his family.  So perfect.
  18. Go to a Broadway musical – it will more than likely be on tour, but it will count and it will be amazing.
  19. Hike 35 miles.  Or maybe 35 kilometers might be more attainable.
  20. Get the trailer set up and go on bike rides with the girls.
  21. Rent a limo.  I’m thinking wine tasting, or Christmas lights?
  22. Make and sew a huge cushion for our hearth.
  23. Get chairs recovered.
  24. Get estimates to get our house painted.
  25. Set up some good seasonal capsule wardrobes.
  26. 5 Days of Christmas crafts on the blog.
  27. Get going on a creative, relaxing morning routine.
  28. More author interviews on the blog.
  29. Plant a tree, or lots of trees.
  30. Take a class.  Sewing?  Cooking? Writing?
  31. Sew some clothing for me.
  32. Make art of Alma’s and Harriet’s rooms.
  33. Go to the Country Fair.
  34. Go camping.
  35. Build a sandcastle or a snowman.

And…. GO!

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Posted in: learned., STRONG | Tagged: art, birthday, creating, garden, goal setting, goals, Life, love, Novruz, Oregon, sewing, strong, travel

A New Coat for Hattie

Posted by Carolyn on November 26, 2014 3 Comments

I took my first sewing class a few weeks ago at Piece By Piece.  In the class we made baby coats, so I made a new coat for Hattie.  I used a cute owl fabric for the main coat, a sweet mushroom fabric for the pockets, and a soft flannel polka dot fabric for the lining.  We followed Olive Ann Designs’ Hoodie Baby pattern, but we didn’t really follow the directions.  Our instructor, Celeste just told us, and showed us what to do.  She was fantastic!  I learned so much about sewing clothes from her.  Now for some photo overload:

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Posted in: created., photography, sewing, sewing for my daughters | Tagged: baby, children, create, creating, kids, Oregon, Parenting, photography, sewing, sewing for kids

Another Pumpkin Patch

Posted by Carolyn on October 15, 2014 Leave a Comment

It’s kind of the Alma show here, but it’s hard to photograph a baby in an Ergo on my back…

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Posted in: a little moment, gave thanks., learned., nature, parented., travel | Tagged: autumn, children, gratitude, kids, Oregon, Parenting, photography, pumpkin patch

Friday Gratitudes 30

Posted by Carolyn on August 1, 2014 Leave a Comment

IMG_2617 20140730_100450[1] 20140730_093302[1]Friday the 25th: Jesse. My wonderful husband came home for a couple hours during lunchtime so I could go get some things done.  Having one sick kid, and one teething kid is incredibly stressful, so I appreciated getting the break.

Saturday the 26th: Mom. Mom came over and watched the kids (Alma was finally eating and drinking again) so Jesse and I could have a coffee date and go on a walk.  It was lovely.

Sunday the 27th: Hydration.We had been pretty worried about Alma’s hydration for the past few days.  It was so wonderful seeing her drink water, and start to perk up.

Monday the 28th: Motivation.

Tuesday the 29th: Health.

Wednesday the 30th: Eugene.A hike in the morning, an all-comers track meet in the evening.  I love Tracktown, USA.

Thursday the 31st: Bounce.

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Friday Gratitudes 29

Posted by Carolyn on July 28, 2014 Leave a Comment

…on a Monday.

20140720_164721 20140720_173209 20140723_121149Friday the 18th: Friends.

Saturday the 19th: Picnics.Teddy Bear Picnic, Jesse’s company picnic, a picnic at Dad’s pool.

Sunday the 20th: Nature.Alma’s first camping trip.

Monday the 21st: Papa.Harriet got to spend the night with my dad while we were camping.  They have such a cool bond.  I love it.

Tuesday the 22nd: Katrina.We got to celebrate our friend’s birthday!

Wednesday the 23rd: Rain. Love. Love. Love.

Thursday the 24th: Bradshaw. As in, Dr. Bradshaw.  We are so lucky to have such a caring, loving, positive, intelligent, and wonderful doctor for our kids.  Especially when they end up with hand, foot, and mouth disease.  Ugh.

 

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At the Beach

Posted by Carolyn on July 8, 2014 1 Comment

Beach 1On Sunday Alma said, “Alma beach?”  Which means “I want to go to the beach.”  Jesse and I looked at each other and shrugged.  Why not?  Let’s do it.  We had been busy working in our garden all weekend, so we deserved it.

Beach 5We packed up and headed out.

Hattie napped on the drive to the ocean.

Beach 4It was a beautiful day.  Sunny, warm, not very windy.  As perfect as a day at the Oregon coast can be

Jesse and Alma flew the kite.  Alma and I played in the water.  Jesse and Alma played in the water.  Hattie ate handfulls of sand.

Beach 3We had clam chowder.

Alma and Hattie both napped on our drive back to the valley.

Perfect.

Beach 2

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What’s In A Name? – Harriet Olcott

Posted by Carolyn on June 30, 2014 5 Comments

Picking Harriet’s name was a little more tricky than picking Alma’s.  This time around, we decided to find out at the 20 week ultrasound whether we were having a boy or a girl.  We put of talking about girl names until then.

If she had been a boy, she would have been named Chet David.  Chet was my great uncle, who was my hero.  He was an amazing man who lived through a lot of amazing and inspiring things.  David is both my dad, and Jesse’s dad.  Alma would have been Chet David, too.  But, she wasn’t a boy.

Baby Chet

Since Alma’s middle name is my maternal grandmother’s maiden name, we had talked about giving our second daughter my paternal grandmother’s maiden name – White.

Muriel White with her mom, and father, Harry.

Harriet:

We found out that Harriet was a girl on the same day that my paternal grandma passed away.  Her name was Muriel, so we threw that name in the ring.  Jesse’s grandma, Daphne, was a great woman who had passed away a few years ago, so her name was up for discussion.

We went to a restaurant and started throwing names out there.  We pretty much left with three options:

  1. Daphne White – Daphne for Jesse’s grandma, White for mine.
  2. Muriel Chapin – Or perhaps Murielle.  Chapin was Daphne’s maiden name.
  3. Harriet Olcott – Harriet because we liked it, but also sort of for my grandma Muriel’s family (her father was Harry) and Olcott for Chet and Helen.

After lots of discussion, we realized that whenever we talked about a name, we both would say, “I like it, but not as much as Harriet.”  That told us something.  If we are comparing all the names to Harriet, that must be the name!

So she was Harriet.

Olcott:

I still wanted to honor Chet and his wife, Helen in our child’s name.

Helen and Chet never had kids of their own, but were sort of like second parents to my mom.  And they were like a third set of grandparents to my brother and me.

Since they didn’t get to have their own kids to carry on their family history – and since we were so connected to them, I wanted to figure out a way to connect their legacy to future generations.

On a hike. Helen did my hair this morning. I lost a tooth (my first?) this afternoon.

Before World War II Chet went to officer’s training school for the Navy and was sent to Wake Island.  On Christmas Eve, 1941, Japanese troops took over the island and took Chet as a Prisoner of War.  He spent the remainder of the war in various POW camps in Japan.  Just think about that… he was a prisoner from December 1941 until September 1945.  Chet never really spoke of his experiences in the camps, but after he died we found journals, letters, artwork and other remembrances of his time as a prisoner.  I had always looked up to Chet, but reading his journal solidified his place as my hero.

Chet – in the middle, and the POW camp in Japan.

After the war, he met and married my Granny’s sister-in-law, Helen McHugh (Granny married my grandfather, Frank McHugh during the war).  They lived together with an unbelievable view of the ocean for the rest of their lives.  Helen and Chet were a third set of grandparents to me.  I learned so much from them:  never to trust a guarantee, to enjoy and celebrate nature, The Lord’s Prayer, how to have a sense of humor, how to fly a kite and so much more.

Also, Chet’s father was Ben W. Olcott.  Ben was governor of Oregon after Oswald West.  That makes both of our girls a part of Oregon history.  And that’s pretty cool.

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What’s In A Name? – Alma West

Posted by Carolyn on June 16, 2014 5 Comments

Back in 2007, Jesse and I were getting ready to leave for the Peace Corps.  I had just found out my Granny was sick, and dying.  My Granny was Jean West McHugh.  We made the decision that should we ever have a daughter, we’d use West as her middle name.  A friend joked that if we named her an A name, her initials would be AWW, that that would be very cute.  So I decided that my daughter would be Amelia West Williams.

Then I read The History of Love.  And Amelia got really popular.  And there was a character in The History of Love named Alma.  And I changed my mind.

Then we moved to Azerbaijan and learned that alma means apple.  And I changed my mind even more.

So Alma was the perfect name.  And West was the perfect middle name.


 

Alma:

The first woman may have been Eve, but the first girl will always be Alma… Maybe the first time you saw her you were ten.  She was standing in the sun scratching her legs.  Or tracing letters in the dirt with a stick.  her hair was being pulled.  Or she was pulling someone’s hair.  And a part of you was drawn to her, and a part of you resisted – wanting to ride off on your bicycle, kick a stone, remain uncomplicated.  In the same breath you felt the strength of a man, and a self-pity that made you feel small and hurt.  Part of you thought:  Please don’t look at me.  If you don’t, I can still turn away.  And part of you thought:  Look at me.

 

The History of Love by Nicole Krauss is a lovely book.  Alma is a main character, and also all the characters.  You can read more about her here.

Alma also means soul, nurturing, and of course apple.

It suits our girl.  She loves to say it.  It’s unique, but still a name.  It is short, and sweet, and sounds good.  It feels good to say, the sounds sort of softly mix in your mouth.

I should perhaps explain that we pronounce it with the A’s sounding the same – the a is pronounced as in ‘all,’ ‘almost,’ or ‘Azerbaijan.’.  Ahhhhlmahhh.


 

West:

My grandmother (my mom’s mom) was always a special lady to me.  She taught me many things about art, culture, the world, humor, confidence, family, and toughness.

She was born to Oswald and Mabel West.  Oswald West was a man ahead of his time.  He was Oregon’s 14th governor, from 1911 until 1915.  During his time in office he passed laws that gave women the right to vote, end capitol punishment and made Oregon’s coast public land.  He also passed prohibition laws, but let’s not hold that against him.

Oswald West had the foresight to make the beaches part of the Oregon highway system, thus ensuring that no one could ever privately own the beaches.  Oswald West State Park is named for him.  It is one of the most beautiful stretches of the Oregon coast and one of the most beautiful parks in Oregon.

My mom loved him as her grandfather.  She called him Go-Go because he would always take her on walks around his Portland neighborhood and down the street to the park.  When he died in 1960, the Oregon Journal wrote of him, “perhaps no one in the state’s history leaves a more lasting impression on it than West.”

We gave Alma the middle name West to honor both her great-grandmother and how much she meant to me, and her great-great-grandfather.  They left legacies for us as a family, and for the whole state of Oregon.


That’s our girl.  Full of spirit, history, and love.  Alma West.

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