We did pretty well this summer! I did better getting the Girl Tribe and Family Fun lists done than my own. There are some things we missed that surprise me – we never made ice cream?! That darn ice cream truck never came by our house. Another summer passed without making any tie dye. (We did actually hike, I just missed it when I was crossing things off).
We did a really good job with our daily schedule until our trips started in August, then everything got lost in the shuffle. Same with reading a new book everyday.
Other things, I realized, weren’t that great in the summer. Why go to the museums when it was so pretty outside? Other things were probably never going to happen – a family bath? That was Alma’s brilliant and silly idea.
Looking at the list of things I wanted to do for me, it’s pretty clear I just didn’t take much time for myself during the summer. And that’s okay, because I really did have a great time with my little girl tribe, and Jesse too, when he wasn’t working.
Here are some updates from our summer to do list. I think we did quite a good job checking things off the list. We didn’t get to everything, but we got to a lot! At the beginning of the summer, I was so anxious and scared about what I was going to do to keep all of us entertained for the entire summer. It all worked out and we had lots of fun. We got into a groove and had lots of help.
Pick a summer theme song. Right now I’m thinking of something by Jenny Lewis or Rilo Kiley. We just saw Jenny last week, so I’m on a Jenny/Rilo kick. Or I might throw back to some of my favorite summers, and go with a Dave Matthews song. DMB songs always make me think of summer. I decided on Budapest because it’s fun, it’s on the radio a lot, and Peter just did a cool version.
Take, and post to Instagram, a photo every day, starting June 21st and ending September 22nd – the first and last days of summer. Recently I’ve gotten into sharing my day to day stuff on Snapchat, and haven’t been posting as much on Instagram. I think I’ll look back and wish I’d taken more permanent documentation of these days. This summer, I will post (at least) one photo a day and I’ll use the hashtag #93summerdays if you want to play along! I did this pretty well! The past few weeks, I sort of stopped because it hasn’t felt very summery. I did have one friend play along, and it was fun to see our photos together in the #93summerdays on Instagram. Thanks for playing, Meredith!
Run through the sprinklers. I tend to be an observer in this activity. I vow to participate this summer. I did this a couple times, but I also got in the kiddie pool, too!
Play outside everyday. This is a long-term goal to get my kids to play outside everyday, rain or shine or snow or fog or whatever. I think they’re getting to be old enough, and creative enough that I can start this. Best to start in the summer, I figure! Not sure we did this absolutely everyday, but pretty darn close!
Have a dinner of corn on the cob. When corn is in season, there’s nothing better. Nope. We had some good corn, but not a full meal. Then we started Whole30 and couldn’t eat corn anymore at all.
Go to a concert.We went to a few of the free concerts at the Hult Center. It was fun to have things to do out on the town.
Stargaze with Alma. Ideally, I want to take her out into the country or wilderness where stars are brighter. I think it would be fun to let her stay up late (or get her up) and take her out, just the two of us. Nope. It got dark way too late for this. Maybe we’ll bundle up and do it this winter.
KonMari Method everything. This will likely be an entire blog post, but I have read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up and am in the process of getting rid of things that don’t spark joy. It’s already been incredible, I can’t wait to continue. We are soooo close to being done! I did the photographs last weekend, and there are just a few boxes in the attic to tackle. I’ve been waiting for it to cool down so it’s not an oven up there.
Ride bikes. We didn’t ride as much as I thought we would…
Make lemonade from scratch. Nope.
Watch fireworks. Big ones this year, I think. Nope. Next year.
Build a sandcastle. In Coronado, Alma spent lots of time digging and building and ruining sand castles.
Make ice cream from scratch. We made a cherry dark chocolate ice cream. I liked it, Alma didn’t, Jesse was indifferent, Harriet likes anything.
Redecorate the living room – specifically the mantel. It still is covered in Easter decorations. Come on. Jesus has already ascended into Heaven and we’re fully in a new church season. Seriously, Carolyn. We did this, but now it’s time to do it again!
Go to the beach. This should be easy. We have another vacation to Coronado planned. Yep. Alma loved it, Harriet fell asleep every time we went to play in the waves.
Go to the mountains.
Bake a crisp, or other summery dessert. Blueberry cobbler ftw.
Swim in nature – ocean, river, lake, stream.
Eat wild berries. Nope. What? How did we miss this?
Make s’mores.
Take each Harriet and Alma on an adventure, just us. I don’t think we really did this… I mean, I spent some time with each of them, but not on purpose.
Plan our tenth anniversary celebration. Ten years! What? We are still working on this one…
Learn how to shop at thrift stores. They totally overwhelm me and I never buy anything. I love to idea of not wearing new clothes – better for earth, better for the workers who make clothes, cheaper – I just don’t know how to do it. Nope. Someday, maybe!
Go to new parks.Maybe try for all the parks in Eugene? Is that crazy? Anyone want to attempt this with us? We went to lots of new parks and found some new favorites!
Shop at the farmer’s market as often as possible. Maybe make it a weekly activity. We never really made it to the farmer’s market, but we went to the farm a lot! I decided it would be much easier with the girls to go somewhere that they can run around, feed goats, climb in hay, etc.
Have a water balloon fight.Ugh! We never did this! Boo!
Buy some treats from the ice cream truck. I tried hard for this one. We never even saw an ice cream truck, darn it! A couple times after the kids were in bed I heard one in the distance…
Go to the library.Another weekly activity? We went a lot, but not weekly.
Swim in a pool. We went to my parents’ club pool a few times. Both girls love being in the water. Alma got really brave with jumping off, and even went off the diving board!
6:40 – I want to remember this changing morning light. Shadows are getting longer, colors are changing. I meant to do A Day In The Life during the summer, but it’s already slipping into Autumn. At least I am doing this before summer officially ends and school starts back up. 6:54 – I want to remember these mornings when Jesse and I play a game of chicken – who can last the longest before getting out of bed to get Harriet, or to get some milk for the girls. This morning I lost, but I usually win.7:02 – I want to remember these breakfasts of smoothies for me, Jesse, and Harriet. Alma doesn’t care for smoothies. Jesse also doesn’t really care for the chia seeds I put in the smoothies, but I’m not going to stop doing it. I love the weird little gooey seeds. 7:21 – I want to remember how Alma could eat a ‘peanut butter sandwich with honey’ for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Sometimes she could eat two. 7:48 – I want to remember how much the girls love ‘talking’ on the phone, usually to their grandparents. This morning it is a princess calling her grandparents. I also want to remember these moments when the girls are entertaining themselves and each other. 8:44 – I want to remember these moments I get to create for my girls. I know it will be too soon before a mama-made backpack won’t be cool enough. For now it’s the coolest thing ever and I appreciate that.9:18 – I want to remember how daunting most sewing projects seem before I start, then how I get in a groove and really enjoy seeing something appear out of nothing. It’s magic, and I love magic. 9:44 – I want to remember how these girls love Sofia the First, and can usually agree to watch it. I also want to remember how much I actually like it too. The songs are so good, and the messages are lovely. Sofia is a strong, smart princess. I feel bad turning on a show so I can get something done, but at least it’s a good show.10:14 – I want to remember how my mom sometimes brings books to share with the girls. Today it is Ladybug Girl and Llama, Llama, Red Pajama. I also want to remember how the girls attach themselves to all their grandparents and soak up all the love being given to them. They are lucky girls. 11:03 – I want to remember how brave Alma got this summer. In the beginning of the summer, she wouldn’t feed the animals on her own, now she finds corn husks, grass, fallen food, and rocks to give the goats and see if they like it. I’m proud of my big girl.11:04 – I want to remember the adventures we took this summer. We went to the farm a lot, to lots of parks, the library, and to concerts all over town. It wasn’t boring, and it wasn’t hard, thanks to lots of grandparents who were around to play with us, and help us out. 11:07 – I want to remember how Harriet is still a little scared of the farm animals. I mean, she loves them, but she doesn’t want to have their mouths anywhere near her. I think this is a healthy fear, and she’ll outgrow it quickly. She loves the animals and never wants to leave them. If I mention the goats, she says, clear as day, “goats!” and holds her hand out like she’s feeding them, then says “money?” because I often don’t have quarters to feed the goats. She’s a planner, and I want to remember that. 11:21 – I want to remember how the girls play together and help each other out. Harriet loves when Alma involves her, and Alma is realizing that Harriet is a playmate who can actually play. 11:28 – I want to remember the taste of Detering’s Apple Cider. It’s a memory of my childhood, going out to the farm, getting the sample cup, begging my parents to buy a gallon to take home. It’s still just as good, and takes me right back to childhood. I love that it will be a memory of childhood for my girls, too. 12:07 – I want to remember how Harriet is eager to help with the chicken chores. She loves to feed them, gather the eggs, and most of all, carry them inside. She even likes to eat them, so that’s a huge plus. I also want to remember her sweet pudgy arms and wonderful cheeks. 1:11 – I want to remember this time of year, when the light starts to shine in through my sewing windows. It means Autumn is coming and the Earth is spinning and rotating and hurtling through its seasonal orbit. Just as it should be.2:16 – I want to remember Alma’s first haircut and how she chooses to have me trim it up. She looks so sweet and grown-up. 3:25 – I want to remember the letters the girls get from their new teachers before school starts. Both girls are so excited today to open mail addressed to them. Alma ‘called’ her teachers and talked to them, and pretended it was school for a good hour after opening her letter. 4:06 – I want to remember how my mom came over or watched the girls at her house so often this summer. I appreciate her as much as my girls do. It makes the day so much better to have a grown-up to talk to. She also generously helps around the house, doing laundry, helping with the dishes, and entertaining all of us. 5:07 – I want to remember these last moments before Jesse gets home. I’m certainly watching for his car to drive up, and I think the girls are anticipating it, too. I’ve been trying to get the girls interested in doing something so they’re not just whining, which is what they usually do. Today it is dancing and playing with babies. I also read a lot of books between 4:30 and when Jesse gets home. Harriet loves Pigeon and Llama Llama books. Alma likes pretty much anything.5:54 – I want to remember how Jesse takes the girls and plays with them while I make dinner. They usually do funny things like pretend to sleep, and he is right there with him. He is seriously the best dad and husband. 6:13 – I want to remember these family dinners we have. Even though we’re in the middle of doing a Whole30, we are able to make food that the girls will eat (most of the time). I also want to remember all these healthier ways we are eating now, and use them forever and ever amen. 6:59 – I want to remember how good it feels to get the dishes done before the kids are in bed! Usually we wait until after, but tonight we finished dinner early, so we just did the dishes as the kids played. Phew, that feels really good. 7:05 – I want to remember how we all cuddle in bed for a story before we put the girls to bed. I want to remember how we do kisses before bed, each person giving each person a kiss, then one big kiss all together. Then, Jesse and I trade off who puts whom to bed. Harriet is easy – a song, then in the crib, tucked in, and out of there. Alma is a different story. She won’t go to sleep unless one of is sitting in her room. I know that this isn’t the best routine, but for now it’s better than having her come out over and over and over again. We’ll figure out another routine soon. It’s also kind of nice to just sit in there with her, and catch up on Instagram and blogs. 9:34 – I want to remember how I feel and who I am right now. I have a good, happy life. I have a warm, comfortable home. I have a loving, funny family. I have support, guidance, friends, and love. And that’s good enough for me. See my other Day In The Life post: May 12 2015.
We’ve had a garden pretty much since we moved into our house. Some years have been better than others. The last few have been pretty lean. Mostly because I have either been pregnant or with a little baby for the past four summers. To me, that made it very difficult to nurture something else – like a garden. We’ve tried lots of different things. This year, it was pretty small, but we focused on spring greens, a substantial herb garden, a sad little flower bed, and a couple tomato plants. In the past we’ve tried to grow enough to can, but it never seems to all be ready at once. This year, I just went out to a farm and bought enough produce to spend a week canning all the things.
The only photo I got of the canning progress… clearly I was busy. Sorry it’s a blurry, grainy phone photo.
I bought a case of peaches, a case and a half of tomatoes, a huge bag of cucumbers, a bouquet of dill, and some amazing sweet onions. With this bounty, I was able to make (and can) a ton of stuff that will hopefully get us through some of the darker months.
After a week of cooking, canning, burning myself, washing, sanitizing, cleaning, sweating, I have 35 jars of summer food to eat in the winter months.
I know that it’s easy (and cheap) enough to just buy good tasting and good for us food at the grocery store. Especially the way we are able to shop at our local market. It might even be cheaper (and it’s certainly easier) than doing all the cooking and canning myself, but that’s not the point. The point, to me, is that I know exactly what’s in our food. I know exactly who made it, and when, and where. It’s something I can do to provide healthy and tasty food for my family.
In the past I’ve canned tomatoes a few times, but that’s it. Just plain old tomatoes. Last year, I read Animal, Vegetable, Miracle and really wanted to try the recipes in the book. I was especially intrigued by the three in a day recipe. You basically begin with a tomato base that starts as barbecue sauce, can it, add some stuff that makes it into a sweet and sour sauce, can it, add some stuff that makes it into a chutney, and can it.
That was the first thing I did. Unfortunately, I started too late in the day and lost steam when I got to the chutney stage. It was late at night and I wasn’t thinking. I ended up skipping the chutney and throwing the remaining sauce away. The chutney was probably a good idea – I’m not sure we’d have eaten much chutney. But the throwing out the remaining sauce? As I was pouring it out it occurred to me that I should not be doing it. Even if I was too tired to can anymore, I could have at least frozen it. Or saved some to eat right away. Ugh. Live and learn.
7 pints barbecue sauce
7 pints sweet and sour sauce
Next up was the tomato sauce also from AVM. I’m not sure I let this cook down enough before I canned it (hey, canning expert readers, is that okay?), there seems to be some water in the jars (you can see this in the above photo). I suppose I can just cook down the sauce more when I’m using it if it’s too runny. I also had three jars that didn’t seal, so I just stuck those in our freezer. Oh, I also gave a quart to my friend Jane who came over to help entertain the kids during the canning process – thanks Jane!
9 quarts tomato sauce
I found my great uncle Chet’s amazing pickle recipe at my mom’s house earlier this summer, so I had to make those. As with many old family recipes, some of the directions were unclear, so I did my best to figure it out. The biggest thing that didn’t make sense was his recipe called for canning in quart jars, but the canning book I have said that canning pickles in quart jars leads to soggy pickles, so I did it in pints. Does anyone out there have an opinion on this? Should I try quart jars next year?
7 pints dill pickles
I decided to just straight up can the rest of the peaches. I already used one jar (because it didn’t seal) to make a cobbler. I know that in the dead of winter, that will taste amazing. I can already imagine it on one of those dark, dreary, foggy nights when it feels like the whole world is void of color – popping one of those jars of summer open and making a sweet, bright dessert.
5 quarts peaches
TOTAL: 35 jars of food!
So, I learned a lot about canning all the things, and I have some ideas of what I’ll do differently next year, but I’m going to hold off on final judgements until we’ve eaten all the fruits of my labor (hahaha… food pun!).
In closing, on the night of the wasted sauce, I didn’t get to bed until after midnight. The next morning Harriet woke up bright and early, and I turned to her and said, “Harriet, you need to be quiet. Mommy was up late preserving the bounty of the season for us to enjoy in the winter.” Jesse cracked up. It’s become one of those jokes.
What have you canned this summer? What are some of your favorite canning recipes? Do you like canning all the things? Do you have any other ways you like to preserve the bounty of the season?
This is funny! I thought one of the things on my Summer 2015 To Do List was to make new summer dresses for the girls. I just checked that list and my 35 Things to do Before I turn 35 list, and it’s not on either! Oh well!
So…. Guess what! I made new summer dresses for the girls for no reason other than the fact that I love doing it, and they are adorable.
And it was a reason to buy this fabric I have been coveting for months and years and decades. I absolutely love Sarah Jane Studios and we have a couple of her prints in the girls’ rooms. I also used some of her fabric in Alma’s quilt.
This is a ‘pattern’ that I made up last summer for Alma’s lion dress. It’s a really fun, simple dress to make. I’ve even helped a couple friends make them for their daughters this summer. I’m toying with a few ideas about how I could get this pattern out to a broader audience. Maybe a workshop for local sewists, or trying to figure out how to get a pdf pattern put together for download.
Anyhow, I used two different lines of fabric for the dresses. I made Harriet’s using fabric in the same design of a print in her bedroom. The kids on parade are so sweet, and Harriet loves, loves, loves balloons.
We spent the afternoon at the University of Oregon art museum, and I took advantage of the backdrops and lighting to get some photos of the girls in their dresses.
This was post-naptime, so Harriet’s dress is a little wrinkled. But that’s life when you’re always on a parade, right?The museum has an amazing program where the kids can pick up backpacks full of activities for the kids. They are mostly above our kids’ heads, but it’s fun to go through them and see what we can talk about.
Each backpack has colored pencils and paper, so aspiring artists can copy the art, or draw what they see. It’s sweet to see what other museum goers have drawn in the past. They also each have magnifying glasses which are always a hit.
The backpacks have themes to them. Alma picked one up and the Asian art they have at the museum. She found some little figurines and coins in a bottle.
We love going to the museum anyway, but the backpacks make our visits even more fun. I hope they keep these backpacks so we can watch how our kids grow and change during our museum visits!
This week I finally got around to taking down the springtime/ Easter decorations on the mantel. I know, I know. We are solidly in summer. It was ridiculous. I decided to go with a colorful, beachy vibe for the summer mantel. And since I was taking photos and thinking about it, I decided to do some awesome crude mockups of how I can revamp the fireplace. These are my fireplace ideas.
But first, the mantel. I couple favorites this season are the birds in the nest. I got the nest jar for my birthday from some great friends. It actually has the green bunny as its top (you can see the bunny above), but I thought the birds would be cute for summertime.
I also have my white bunnies front and center. These are a favorite possession of mine. When we left Azerbaijan quickly and unexpectedly, our lovely host family gave them to us. They were always on display in their home, and it really means so much to me that they gifted them to us. They are usually, if not always, on our mantel.Now on to some ideas. I have wanted to do something with the fireplace since we moved in. You might remember that we used to have a big ugly woodstove in the fireplace (you can see it in the photos here). That’s been gone for about a year, and we’ve just been living with the empty fireplace.
I think the first step will be to paint the inside of the fireplace. Black, gray, or white, I suppose. Here’s what it looks like now:
I think painting the inside black would look the best, because then it would draw attention to whatever we put inside. Some ideas for what to put inside are a big bowl, like this one shaped like a shell:Or some logs on their side. I’ve seen this done a lot, but I came across this cool idea on The Art of Doing Stuff, and did a little mockup of how it would look in our fireplace (the image of the logs is their photo, I just edited it into my fireplace):
I think that’s really fun, and it would be cool to do different colors for different seasons, or just have them all painted in bright metallics.
Next, I tried to see what it would look like if we painted the bricks, or installed white tiles over them. For fun, I threw some logs and a grate in the fireplace. Seriously amazing photoshopping here, folks.
One thing that I’ve wanted to do for a while is sew up a long cushion for the whole fireplace. Here’s what that would look like in blue:
Obviously, this is a totally different fireplace that goes to the ground, so we’d have to do things differently. This is also the most drastic since we’d be covering all the bricks and installing tile and building a whole new mantelpiece.
What do you think? Any other ideas out there? Please leave me a comment with your favorite fireplace makeover, or some compliments on my photoshopping skills!
June is here. School’s almost over. Summer’s coming. I’m not the biggest fan of summer, I admit. I thinking having a list of things to do this summer might make me enjoy it more. A lot of these are also on my 35 Until 35 list, so that’s good.
Pick a summer theme song. Right now I’m thinking of something by Jenny Lewis or Rilo Kiley. We just saw Jenny last week, so I’m on a Jenny/Rilo kick. Or I might throw back to some of my favorite summers, and go with a Dave Matthews song. DMB songs always make me think of summer. I decided on Budapest because it’s fun, it’s on the radio a lot, and Peter just did a cool version.
Take, and post to Instagram, a photo every day, starting June 21st and ending September 22nd – the first and last days of summer. Recently I’ve gotten into sharing my day to day stuff on Snapchat, and haven’t been posting as much on Instagram. I think I’ll look back and wish I’d taken more permanent documentation of these days. This summer, I will post (at least) one photo a day and I’ll use the hashtag #93summerdays if you want to play along!
Run through the sprinklers. I tend to be an observer in this activity. I vow to participate this summer.
Play outside everyday. This is a long-term goal to get my kids to play outside everyday, rain or shine or snow or fog or whatever. I think they’re getting to be old enough, and creative enough that I can start this. Best to start in the summer, I figure!
Have a dinner of corn on the cob. When corn is in season, there’s nothing better.
Go to a concert.
Stargaze with Alma. Ideally, I want to take her out into the country or wilderness where stars are brighter. I think it would be fun to let her stay up late (or get her up) and take her out, just the two of us.
KonMari Method everything. This will likely be an entire blog post, but I have read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up and am in the process of getting rid of things that don’t spark joy. It’s already been incredible, I can’t wait to continue.
Go on a day date with Jesse.
Hike.
Camp.
Ride bikes.
Make lemonade from scratch.
Watch fireworks. Big ones this year, I think.
Build a sandcastle.
Make ice cream from scratch. We made a cherry dark chocolate ice cream. I liked it, Alma didn’t, Jesse was indifferent, Harriet likes anything.
Redecorate the living room – specifically the mantel. It still is covered in Easter decorations. Come on. Jesus has already ascended into Heaven and we’re fully in a new church season. Seriously, Carolyn.
Go to the beach. This should be easy. We have another vacation to Coronado planned.
Go to the mountains.
Bake a crisp, or other summery dessert. Blueberry cobbler ftw.
Swim in nature – ocean, river, lake, stream.
Eat wild berries.
Make s’mores.
Take each Harriet and Alma on an adventure, just us.
Plan our tenth anniversary celebration. Ten years! What?
Learn how to shop at thrift stores. They totally overwhelm me and I never buy anything. I love to idea of not wearing new clothes – better for earth, better for the workers who make clothes, cheaper – I just don’t know how to do it.